You’ve seen them—men and women standing on medians or sidewalks along Erie Boulevard or downtown Syracuse, holding cardboard signs that say “Anything Helps.” And if you’re a parent, chances are your kids have asked from the back seat, “Why is that person there?” or “Can we help?” For parents, these moments often spark difficult conversations.

If you're anything like me, maybe you've looked away, unsure of what to do.  Even though this makes me feel guilty, I really didn’t know how else to respond. But what if doing something is better than doing nothing, and the answer is simpler than we think?

John Tumino, founder of In My Father’s Kitchen (IMFK), encourages something small but radical: look up. Smile. Make eye contact, and if you’ve got a care bag in your car—a little nylon drawstring or baggie filled with bandaids, chapstick, socks, a toothbrush—offer it. They may say no, but they may also feel seen. A little dignity, humility, and respect goes a long way.

This spring, CNY Mental Health Counseling partnered with IMFK to assemble drawstring bags filled with supplies—band-aids, chapstick, socks, toothbrushes, and more. These bags are now in the hands of individuals facing homelessness throughout our community.

IMFK was founded in 2011 by John and Leigh-Ann Tumino as a direct outreach initiative for unhoused individuals in Syracuse. In collaboration with Upstate Medical University’s HouseCalls for the Homeless, IMFK delivers on-the-street medical, psychiatric, and addiction care through a fully equipped mobile unit. This outreach meets people exactly where they are, offering both physical support and emotional respect. Their team also connects individuals with work opportunities, coaching, and long-term resources to support lasting change.

The need has grown. Between 2023 and 2024, homelessness in Onondaga County rose by 27%, and has increased by 46% since 2019. For the first time since reporting began in 2007, families now outnumber individuals among the homeless population. These shifts reflect not only deepening need, but also the urgent call for collective action.

With summer approaching, many families are seeking meaningful activities for their tweens and teens. Community service can foster empathy and connection while addressing real needs. Consider hosting a supply drive, assembling care packages, or volunteering with IMFK. Another powerful option is participating in Sandwich Saturdays, a weekly program organized by We Rise Above the Streets. Volunteers prepare and distribute over 1,000 sack lunches, along with clothing and hygiene kits, creating both relief and awareness.

To learn more about IMFK, visit inmyfatherskitchen.org. For information on how to support Sandwich Saturdays, visit streetsrecoveryoutreach.org.

Let this summer be a season of deeper connection—one where our families learn not just to look away from those in need, but to respond with empathy, action, and heart.