The sound of polished shoes gliding across the dance floor, the rustle of dresses, and the occasional nervous laugh—this is the charm of the Town & Country Cotillion. For generations, Richmond middle schoolers have stepped into a world where tradition meets modern social grace. Established in 1961, this beloved program gives students in grades six through eight the opportunity to master formal and semi-formal dances, refine their etiquette, and, most importantly, create lasting memories with friends in a fun and structured setting.

Throughout the season, participants attend a variety of themed events that range from classic elegance to high-energy fun. This year’s lineup included the always-popular Halloween Howl, where costumes and playful dances took center stage, and the patriotic Red, White & Blue night. The Holly Ball, one of the most anticipated events, followed a tradition where boys were accompanied by their mothers and girls by their fathers, creating a heartwarming family moment. Other highlights included Boot Scootin’ Boogie, which brought a Western flair to the dance floor, and Cupid Ball, which celebrated Valentine’s Day with festive decorations and lively music. Themed nights like “Grease” allowed students to embrace their inner T-Birds and Pink Ladies, adding a nostalgic twist to the experience.

While the focus is on dancing and etiquette, the most cherished aspect for many participants is the social connection. “My favorite part was spending time with my friends,” shared Eloise McKeiver, echoing a sentiment felt by many of her peers. For middle schoolers navigating an often awkward phase of life, cotillion offers a structured yet enjoyable way to interact, build confidence, and develop poise in social settings.

Running from October through March, Town & Country Cotillion is a time-honored tradition that blends Southern charm with modern fun. For generations, Richmond families have embraced its lessons in etiquette, dance, and social interaction, knowing that these experiences will serve their children well beyond the dance floor.