Why Waving to Your Glenmary Neighbor Matters More Than You Think
Picture a typical evening on your street. Maybe you’re walking your dog, pulling into your driveway after a long day, or checking your mailbox before dinner. As you see your neighbor, how do you respond? Do you offer a quick wave, a smile, or a simple "hello"? Or do you keep your eyes forward, distracted by the demands of the day and eager to get back inside?
In today’s fast-paced, digital world, we know what's happening across the country, yet we may know very little about the people living next door or a few doors down. Most of us don’t think much about the brief interactions with our neighbors. Yet, these small moments of acknowledgment may be more important than we realize.
Neighborhood social cohesion is a term used by researchers to describe trust, connectedness, and mutual support among people who live in the same community. Research consistently shows that neighborhoods with higher levels of social cohesion experience better mental health outcomes including lower levels of depression and anxiety (Soto & Santos-Lozada, 2025). Neighborhood social cohesion is strengthened through connection, and everyday interactions, such as waving across the street, stopping for a brief conversation, checking on a neighbor after a storm, or simply recognizing familiar faces, can serve as the first step toward connection.
Each time we wave, introduce ourselves, attend a Glenmary community event, or otherwise make space for connection, we help create the kind of neighborhood where people feel known, supported, and valued. Over time, these seemingly ordinary moments help create something extraordinary: a community where people don't just live near one another, they know one another, care for one another, celebrate life's joys together, support each other through challenges, and feel a true sense of belonging.
References
Soto, S. L. A., & Santos‐Lozada, A. R. (2025). Neighborhood cohesion and symptoms of anxiety across racial/ethnic groups in the United States. Journal of Community Psychology, 53(2). https://doi.org/10.1002/jcop.70000